1.

 Do not count

untrustworthy, but plans a temporary convenience and lips happy. In the long run that lost the confidence of others to lose the most capital.

2. Do not verbal abuse assault

explosive temper when the other side, we should temporarily avoid, so that the other can not find the vent, and gradually eliminate the fire. Avoidance does not equal

3. Timely communication and eliminate the contradictions with each other

verbal abuse is difficult to avoid. The best thing is to have signs before or after, the two sides sit down and calm communication, to eliminate misunderstanding or conflict, to avoid the emergence of verbal abuse.

4. Do not anger

medicine, when angry easily hurt your liver and spleen, easy to anger the average life expectancy significantly lower than normal people, more likely to aging, but also hurt each other's gas. Therefore, failing to keep a cool head and learn

5. Do not gossip

gossip behind the practice will not only hurt the friendship between friends or colleagues, or even result in consequences against each other. Also reflects the low character.

so to do: interfere in someone else's privacy, do not spread gossip, do not gloat on someone else's fault.

6. Do not open too much fun

joking is common, but moderate. We can be grasped in several ways: cheerful, generous people, slightly more fun, you can make the atmosphere more active. Restrained person, less open or even not joking. The opposite sex, especially for women, jokes must be appropriate. Do not take someone else's name or a random joke from the correct number, barking nickname. Elders, leadership, jokes sure to hold each other on the basis of dignity. In some sad, unfortunate or atmosphere of the occasion or the other is dedicated solemn assembly, major social events, no kidding. Even jokingly, but also pay attention to the content of health, humor, elegance. Do not take other people's shortcomings joke,cheap UGG boots, do not open vulgar, obscene jokes.

II. Visit Etiquette

1. Prior and before visiting the other agreement, so as not to disturb the master plan or outsmarted. To be punctual for appointments when they visit, the length of time should be based on the purpose and the owner wishes to visit, and generally should be short not long.

2. If for some reason can not be immediately received by reception staff can be arranged at the reception in the drawing room, conference room or at the front desk, quietly waiting. If the reception staff did not say,

3. Smokers who are not around to observe the warning against smoking. If not, we must ask whether the staff mind smoking. If you wait too long, explain to the relevant personnel, and the other given time, not showing impatience.

4. Even those who disagree and reception, and do not dispute. Provide assistance to the reception to be properly appreciated. To observe the behavior of those who received facial expressions, enough is enough. When those who are impatient or have received embarrassing performance, should be changing the subject or tone; when received by the end of the meeting said there should be play gooseberry and immediately got up to leave.

5. Reach the location of the interviewed people, be sure to gently knock on the door, entered and sat down arrangements and other masters. Later, the guests arrived, the first guests to stand up and wait for presentations or nod.

6. visit should be polite, pay attention to the details of general communication. Leave, with the hosts and other guests to leave one by one, say

III. Call etiquette

1. Correct and appropriate term. It not only reflects their own upbringing, level of respect for each other, and even to embody the extent of the relationship and social habits. Important to note: First, in line with conventional, the second is to do as the Romans these two points.

addition, to deal with life in the address, work address, diplomacy terms, carefully grasp the taboo term, serious differences. Life term should be friendly, natural, accurate and reasonable. In the workplace, people call each other is special, requiring a solemn, formal, standardized. The contacts to the duties, title match, which is called one of the most common method. Such as Mr. Zhang, Director Li. International exchanges, because the conditions, ethnic, religious, cultural differences, called to look different. First, we must grasp the general rule, the second is to pay attention to national differences. Contacts in the government, the common term than The title Professors, judges, lawyers, doctors, doctor, because they are well respected in society, can be directly used as names.

2. Address the five taboos

when we use the term, we must avoid the practice of the following types of manners. (1) the wrong call

common mistake is misreading or misunderstanding is nothing more than call.

misread the name is mispronounced. To avoid this from happening, who do not know the word, be prepared in advance; if a temporary experience, we must humble advice. Misunderstanding, mainly for being called the age, seniority, marital status and relationship with other people made the wrong judgments. For example, the unmarried women as Relatively young women, can be called

(2) does not pass the call to use

some call, with some regional, such as in Shandong people like to call The spouse, often called the Chinese

(3) improper use of the term

workers can call for the But if other people use these to refer to, perhaps also the other side have the feeling that he was demeaning.

(4) use of vulgar term Some call

not suitable for use in a formal setting. For example, the

(5) called nickname

the relationship between the general and not given a free hand to each other nicknames, but can not use hearsay to the nickname to call each other. Can not just take someone else's name random joke.

IV. Etiquette

Etiquette is the basic etiquette is very important content. Introduce people to communicate with each other is the starting point, the most prominent role, is to shorten the distance between people. In social or business occasions, such as the use of properly introduced, can not only expand their own circle and make friends, but also to make the necessary self-presentation, self-promotion, and for themselves in interpersonal exchanges to remove misunderstandings and reduce trouble .

1. Introduce yourself

in social activities, if you want to get to know a person or persons, but no one introductions, you can own as my references, introduced himself to each other. Determine the specific content of self-introduction, to take into account the actual needs, which the scene must have a clear target, not Sometimes you can put your name or surname with the famous combination of terms commonly used to enhance other people's memories. For example, the name is However, if the introducer present, self-introduction is considered impolite.

2. Advising people

for others to do the presentation, you can follow this order: to introduce young older; to introduce a low position of high office. If the object is described on their ages, positions rather, the opposite sex must comply with the a; introduce both high and low position, when he introduced the low position of high office; also from left to right or right to left in the introduction. Introduction of others before being introduced not only to seek the views of both what, when you call in introducing to greet, do not go opening that is speaking, so was introduced by surprise. When the presenter asked not to be interested to know someone, do not reject or minced, but should be readily accepted. Do not want to, you should politely explain the reasons. When the presenter came forward to start when you are introduced, was introduced by both sides should get up stand Mianhanweixiao, openly visual description or other. When the presenter presentation, was introduced by the two sides should follow the order of ceremonial handshake line, greeting each other about each other, each a business card can also be, as contact information. Introduced either to others or self-introduction, was introduced to the two sides should be humble attitude, friendly and reasonable manner, should not insolent or timid.

five. Handshake etiquette

.. handshake, is a part of communication. The strength of shaking hands, posture, and the length of time can often express the different objects on the handshake courtesy and attitude, reveal your personality, give the impression of different impression,UGGs, but also to understand each other by shaking hands personality, to win the communication initiative. Blind and deaf American writer Helen Keller said: I have to resist the hand of contact with people thousands of miles away; also some people's hands full of sunshine, you will feel very warm ... ...

1. Shake hands with the requirements of

general, and who first met, long-lost acquaintance, leave off can shake hands or to express their good will is the most common. Some special occasions, such as congratulations to the people, thanks or greetings,; two conversations in common when there is satisfactory; or both of the original conflict a good turn for the better occurred or when the total settlement is also customary to shake hands ceremony. When shaking hands, about one step away from each other, the upper body slightly forward, two-legged stand at attention, his right hand, four fingers close together, intersect tiger's mouth, open the thumb down, shake hands to Shouli. Hold each other's hand palm down, indicating a strong dominance of people like, silently tell people he is in superior position. Should try to avoid this insolent handshake. On the contrary, in shaking hands palm to show a humble and respectful person,UGG boots cheap, if out of his hands, but also sound like the humility. Equality and natural handshake gesture is the palm of his hands are in a vertical state. This is one of the most common and most secure way handshake. Gloved hands is rude, women can be an exception. Of course, in the cold outdoors can not take off. Example, both wearing gloves, a hat, then generally you should say: The two sides watch each other while shaking hands, smiling, greeting, compliment, do not look at third party or become distracted. In addition to intimate relations between people can put hands together for long, in general, holding two or three on the line. Do not be too hard, but casually fingertips Normal time control to within three to five seconds. If you would like to express my sincere and warm, but also a long time shaking hands, shaking up and down a few. When shaking hands, touch hands to separate the time is too short, as if going through the motions, but also like the meaning of the other cherished ring. The time is too long, particularly those who pull the opposite sex or the first meeting and hold the hand of a long, somewhat Xu Qing false righteousness, even the suspicion of being a Between elders and younger people, older hand, the younger generation to hand grips, between the upper and lower levels, after reaching a higher level, the lower order to take hold; men and women, the woman's hand, the man can reach the phase grip; course, if the man is long who said earlier in accordance with the method. If you need more than shake hands and shook hands, to pay attention to the order, the respect and humble, that is, after the first young person older, the first elders and then the younger generation, the first teacher after the students, the first President after the men, after the first unmarried married who, after the lower first superior. If the number is higher when communication can only shake hands with several people close to the others nod or slight bow on the line. In order to avoid the embarrassing situation occurred in the active and shake hands, you should think about whether you welcomed by the other party, if the other party has been aware of the meaning is not to shake hands, nod on the line. In public places, grip

depends on when the order in hand position, identity. And in social, leisure occasions, which mainly depend on age, gender, marital status. When visitors at the reception, this problem becomes a special few: When the guests arrived, the owner should put their hands on the first phase grip with the guests. And the guests leave, it would be up to the guests first hand grip and the host phase. The former is to The reverse order, it is easy to be misleading. It should be stressed that the priority of the handshake without excessive demands on people everywhere. Venerable or if they are elderly parent. The Suffering person, young or first to reach lower levels, the most appropriate is to immediately reach out his hand for cooperation. And do not ignore each other on the spot to make a fool of myself. When you shake hands, we might say a few words of greeting, you can grip the other hand, should be direct and positive tone, and strengthen the important wording clasped each other's hand, to strengthen the other side of your impression.

2. The occasion should shake hands:

met acquaintances not seen for a long time;

in more formal occasions and acquaintances say goodbye;

to me as the host at social occasions, when you meet or bid farewell to visitors;

visit to others after the time of farewell;

was introduced to people who do not know when;

in social situations, stumble across old friends or superiors, when relatives and friends;

others have given you some support, encourage or help the time;

thanks, congratulations, congratulations to time;

others in understanding, support, affirmation pm;

know that someone sick, romance, unemployment, demoted or suffered other setbacks;

gifts to others or the prize awarded.

3. Taboo eight handshake

handshake line we should strive to meet the specification, the following faux pas to avoid violating taboos.

(1) Do not use the left hand grips, in particular, and Arabs, to keep in mind when dealing with Indians, because in their view, the left hand is not clean.

(2) and Christian believers in the dealings, to avoid shaking hands with the other two men shook hands relative to the formation of two cross-shaped, this shape similar to the cross, in their eyes it is very auspicious .

(3) Do not shake hands, wearing gloves or sunglasses,Discount UGG boots, only the President on social occasions wearing gauze gloves to shake hands, is allowed.

(4) Do not shake hands with the other hand in his pockets, or holding something.

(5) Do not shake hands blankly, did not mention the term or long-winded, bowing too polite.

(6) Do not just shake hands holding each other's fingertips, as if deliberately to distance with each other. The correct approach is to hold the palm of your hand. Even if the opposite sex should be the case.

(7) Do not shake hands over the opponent's hand chain, push in the past, or shake up and down incessantly.

(8) Do not refuse to shake hands, even if illness or sweaty hands, dirty, but also talk about each other, So as to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.

Western business card etiquette

Westerners in the use of a business card to write a few French words are usually the first letter, they represent different meanings:

n.b. said: Note cards to remind each other on the postscript.

p.f. said: For holidays or other fixed anniversary.

p.f.n.a. said:

p.r., said: The receipt of gifts, congratulation or thanks after being hospitality.

p.p. says: Used to bring a friend to another person.

p.p.c. said: While breaking up with.

p.c., said: In the death of important people, expressed sympathy.